There are a number of reasons why dating married women is easier and much more fun compared to dating single women.
With married women everything is simpler and all cards are on the table.
Or maybe deep down you secretly enjoy the secrecy and lies, dishonesty and pain of having an affair with a married man.
I had tried really hard up to that point to hold it back, honestly. I think part of me recognized that she was much smarter and more modest than me. This fire was burning in me, a fire that burned just like that second date: I was in love. Marriage, quicker than I was ready for, did this thing: it started sucking away that emotion. In other words, it was in the practicality that I found the love I was looking for. That fire I felt, it was simply that: emotional fire. I think that might be a big part of the reason the divorce rate is so high in this country. It’s time that we changed the conversation about love. Because until we do, adultery will continue to be common. He’s everything you’ve ever wanted, you belong together…but he is another woman’s husband.He belongs to someone else morally and legally – even though he makes you feel like you’re “the one” for him. It’s time to reclaim your life and emotions, and learn how to emotionally detach from this relationship. Why wasn’t I getting reciprocal lovey-doveyness when we were first married? From Disney movies to my favorite shows like “The Office” to practically every pop song released, love is constantly sold as an emotion we have before we’re married. And that’s why my wife just gave me that half-smile. And now that I’ve tried to change the way I look at love, the more I become shocked at the messages of love I had gotten when I was younger.